[daverovan]

my wife is not faithful to me, she doesn't know that I know about it. waht should I do?

[Onkel]

Pack your stuff and leave when she is not home( i know it might seem a bit drastic, but what she is doing is unforgiveble), so she can try to figure it out herself. And DON'T blame yourself unless you have been behaving the same way. If she is unfaithful then there is something wrong in the relationship from before.


-Onkel

Dette innlegget har blitt redigert av Onkel: 07 oktober 2008 - 12:04

[bb1984]

daverovan skrev 7 Oct 2008, 12:19:

my wife is not faithful to me, she doesn't know that I know about it. waht should I do?

Depends how you feel about it, how you feel about her, what kind of relationship you have, etc. Other factors should also be considered, i.e. if you have children.

Generally speaking, i think you need to confront her about it. If theres no confrontation you will rot inside. If you feel her deception is too big, confront her and leave her. If her deception is forgivable reconcile with her.

Listen to your own feelings, good luck.

[Resin]

daverovan skrev 7 Oct 2008, 10:19:

my wife is not faithful to me, she doesn't know that I know about it. waht should I do?

Please dont do anything now. U are in a state of shock, and should not be making big life time desitiones now. Tell her u know, make her face u. But do it calmly. I know it is hard, belive me! I know how u feel right now. And I am sorry that this happend to u. If u have children, this is espesially important. For them, u need to resolve this, and then mabye move on, with or without her.

Good luck!

[bing]

hahaha

[Jeff]

kick the bitches ass... who the hell does she think she is? queen bitch orsomething?

sorry for my language but thats just ridiculous... i would have made sure her life would be a 'living hell'... for sure man..

[pollen]

:rolleyes: If there's no kids involved, I would be tempted to say "eff off",,, unless you got deep feelings for her. If that's the case, you really need to sit down and talk about it, face to face. That way, both of you will know what you want out of life All the best from Pollen,,,

[pollen]

If anybody in Norway has any problems with their daily life,we shall ride it out,,, I am to stoned A.T.M.,,,, office shut till further notice,,,,, :rolleyes: :lol:

[Queetwots]

There are a few gentlemen out there but they are few and far between. Id have to go with its on life support

[RoboPot]

Random.. :whistling:

[x_1001]

daverovan skrev 07 oktober 2008 - 11:19:

my wife is not faithful to me, she doesn't know that I know about it. waht should I do?

When u give so little info its hard to give u good advice.

Anyway this happened to me two years or so ago, and i found out about it after i had ended the relationship becaucse of my suspicions. I knew i still wanted her in my life and if i refused contact with her she would go the the person she was unfaithful with wich was one of her best friends, so we just kept together as "friends" first, but it was hard since all our friends knew. It fucked me up pretty much, i got addicted to alchol, drestroyed my beautiful glass bong (still have a huge scar:p), beat up a couple of persons and drove drunk. Dont get yourself drunk until you have sorted this somewhat out! But now me and my girlfriend are still together and im glad i didnt leave her.

But this fucked our relationship up even more, cuz when i drink i get angry over what happened or it gets me an excuse to fuck other women. Wich has happened way to many times. So our relationship is still heavily damaged.

Since this is your wife i assume u care for her alot. Its gonna be a painful process anyway, u have to confront her with hit but its your choice to leave or try to fix it. Good luck m8 :(

[marlon_murray]

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daverovan skrev 07 oktober 2008 - 12:19:

det er jo en stund siden.. får håpe han ikke fortsatt lurer på hva han skal gjøre.. :P

[JamangaPopoduff]

We are really hoping you're not still wondering about what to do daverovan!